Money Matters: How to Teach Your Children About Financial Responsibility
As a parent, you strive to teach your children many skills—everything from learning the alphabet and tying their shoes when they’re young, to how to drive a car and navigate life when they’re older. You’re a trusted source of knowledge, support, and guidance for them as they grow and learn throughout their years.
Teaching your children about financial responsibility is as important a skill as any you’ll teach them. As of 2023,
only half the states in America have a required K-12 financial education curriculum, so it’s often up to parents to teach their children how to manage money.
By instilling financial principles at an early age, you can help your children develop lasting financial habits that will serve them well into adulthood. Learning about money can help your children make informed decisions about their finances as they grow up, and help them lead a more financially fulfilling life.
Why Is Learning About Money Important?
Financial literacy is the foundation of a secure financial future. Understanding how to budget, save, invest, build credit, and maintain financial wellness are essential life skills in today’s world.
Financial mistakes can have long-lasting consequences, and being financially literate can help you be smarter with your money, avoid financial pitfalls, and improve your financial security and stability.
Parents are the first and most influential teachers of financial literacy. As you well know, children are excellent observers; it feels like they see and hear everything, even from a very young age.
Your attitude and behavior toward money can play a significant role in shaping your children’s understanding of how to manage money and their financial habits.
Take an active role in guiding your children through the complexities of personal finance. The financial lessons your children learn from you can help set the stage for their financial future and help them establish a strong financial foundation they can build on as they grow.
Financial Lessons at Every Age
You can teach your children about money at every stage of life.
Young Children
Remember when you first learned about money and coins as a child? It’s a wonderful and simple way to introduce your little ones to the concept of money. Start by teaching them to identify different bills and coins, and explain how money is used to purchase the things we need. You can even create a pretend store where they can practice paying for items and receiving change. This not only helps them understand the value of money but also reinforces their counting skills with coins and bills.
As your children grow a little older, give them a piggy bank so you can begin to teach them about saving. You can give them an allowance for chores around the house and help them set small savings goals (like buying a toy). You can explain to them the difference between needs and wants, which can be a starting point for teaching them about budgeting and how to make smart spending decisions.
You can also introduce the “save, spend, share” concept to teach your children the basics of money management while also fostering a sense of philanthropy and charitable giving. Encourage them to divide the money they receive into these three categories, guiding them on how much to allocate to each. This approach not only reinforces smart financial habits but also instills the value of giving back.
- Save: This money can be set aside for a bigger purchase they’re aiming for or saved for something they might want in the future.
- Spend: They can use this money to buy something they want right now, like a small toy or treat.
- Share: This portion can be given to those in need or donated to support a cause or organization they care about.
Teenagers
In their teen years, your children can continue to learn about budgeting and the importance of saving. Whether it’s earning money through a bigger allowance for helping around the house or a part-time job, your children can learn the value of work and making smart money decisions.
Help your teens open a Roth or a savings account and explain how compounding works as a reward for saving. Encourage them to continue to save, whether it’s for a new phone they want, their own car, or spending money to go out with friends.
Teens can learn how to track their income and spending by monitoring their bank account, or through various budgeting apps available. Learning how to manage their budget can not only help them reach their savings goals but also prepare them for future adult financial responsibilities.
College-Age and Beyond
In your children’s college years, budgeting is crucial for effectively managing their living expenses, tuition costs, and other expenses on their own. Guide them in creating a realistic budget that aligns their income and savings with their expenses, helping them build the skills needed to achieve financial independence
Be sure to educate your nearly adult children on the importance of credit and debt management. Their first credit card, student loans, or first apartment are valuable opportunities to teach them about building and maintaining credit and managing debt responsibly. Ensure they understand the implications of their loans, including interest rates and repayment options, and how these factors can affect both their finances and their credit score in the long run.
As they approach adulthood, you can also teach your children about long-term financial planning, such as investing, saving for retirement, and planning for the future. Teach them that having a plan in place for the long term can help them enhance their financial wellness and quality of life well into their golden years.
How Five Pine Wealth Management Can Help
Teaching your children about financial responsibility can help them build confidence in money matters as they grow. The knowledge you share can empower them to make well-informed decisions to build financial independence and success. The lifelong skills you instill in your children can carry them through adulthood and toward a more secure and prosperous future.
Start early, and make financial literacy a priority in your household.
As you guide your children on their financial journey, partnering with a professional can provide invaluable support and expertise. A financial advisor can help you tailor financial lessons to your children’s unique needs and future goals, offering personalized advice on everything from savings plans to investment strategies.
At
Five Pine Wealth Management, we’ll work closely with you to develop a comprehensive family financial plan that aligns with your long-term objectives. As
fiduciary financial advisors, we are committed to acting in your best interest, helping you and your family grow your wealth and build financial success. We welcome you to find out how we can help:
email us or give us a call at 877.333.1015 to schedule a meeting.

