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Making Cents of It All: How to Combine Finances After Marriage

Admin • March 15, 2024

Getting married is such an exciting time! You’ve found your soulmate and are ready to build a life together. While you may be caught up in wedding planning bliss, one of the less romantic but critical conversations you need to have is about your finances. 

Marriage is not just a union of hearts; it’s also a merger of financial lives. Whether you’re coming into the marriage with significant assets, some debt, or a mix of both, it’s crucial to prepare and align your financial strategies. Money issues are one of the top reasons for divorce , so it’s best to get on the same page from the start.

Let’s jump in and look at how you can set the stage for a financially secure and happy marriage!

Understanding Each Other’s Financial Standing

Let’s face it — talking about money isn’t easy. Many of us have shame or anxiety around finances. But relationships require vulnerability and honesty, especially regarding something as integral to your lifestyle as money. Being transparent with your partner will only strengthen your bond.

Before you merge lives (and bank accounts), have a heart-to-heart about your current financial situation. This conversation should cover your income, debts, savings, investments, and other financial obligations. Transparency is key. It might feel uncomfortable discussing student loans or credit card debt, but these are crucial details your partner needs to know.

The goal isn’t to judge but to understand and plan. If there’s a significant disparity in assets or liabilities, consider how it affects your future together. Does it make sense to pay off debt together, or should the person who brought it into the marriage handle it independently? These decisions are personal and should be made together with respect and understanding.

Combining Finances After Marriage

The decision on whether to combine your finances is a significant one. According to a survey by creditcards.com , 23% of American couples have completely separate finances, 34% take the “yours, mine, and ours” approach of partially combining finances, and 43% have fully combined their finances. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. 

  1. Fully Combined Finances : All incomes, debts, and assets are merged into joint accounts. This fosters unity and simplifies management but requires a high level of trust and cooperation.
  2. Partially Combined Finances : Joint accounts are used for shared expenses and savings while maintaining some individual accounts for personal spending. This method allows for shared financial responsibilities while preserving individual autonomy.
  3. Separate Finances: Keeping finances completely separate, with a system for dividing shared expenses. This might work well for couples who value financial independence or have significant differences in income or debt.

Discuss these options and choose the one that feels right for your relationship. Flexibility is essential; what works now may need to be adjusted as your life together evolves.

Handling Unequal Assets and Liabilities

When one partner brings considerably more assets or liabilities into the marriage, it can create a dynamic that requires careful handling. 

Prenuptial agreements are often misunderstood, but they can be a practical tool for outlining what happens to assets and debts if the marriage ends. They’re particularly worth considering for those entering a marriage with significant assets, a business, or children from previous relationships.

For ongoing liabilities like student loans or credit card debt, decide together whether these will be paid off jointly or individually. Consider the impact on your joint financial goals, like buying a home or saving for retirement. 

It’s also worth discussing how you’ll contribute to savings and investments, especially if there’s a significant income disparity. Equality in a marriage doesn’t necessarily mean contributing the same amount financially but contributing in a way that feels equitable to both partners.

Important Considerations

  • Emergency Fund: Regardless of how you choose to manage your finances, having an emergency fund is crucial. Aim for three to six months’ worth of living expenses in a readily accessible account.
  • Estate Planning: It’s not the most cheerful topic, but deciding on wills, powers of attorney, and beneficiaries is essential. These decisions ensure that your assets are distributed according to your wishes and that your partner is protected if something happens to you.
  • Insurance: Review your health, life, and disability insurance coverage. Marriage is a qualifying event that may allow you to make changes to your benefits outside the usual enrollment period.
  • Tax Implications: Marriage can affect your tax situation, often positively. Consider consulting with a tax professional to understand the implications and plan accordingly.

The Psychological and Emotional Aspects

Money discussions can be fraught with emotional undercurrents, often because they tap into deeper issues of security, trust, and values. Recognize that your attitudes towards money were shaped long before you met your partner, influenced by your upbringing and life experiences. Be open to learning about your partner’s financial perspective, and be prepared to compromise.

Money mindsets and habits typically start in childhood. It may be helpful to discuss topics like:

  • How did your family handle money growing up?
  • What behaviors or beliefs stuck with you?
  • What’s your biggest money fear?
  • Are you risk-averse or more of a gambler?

Understanding each other’s financial “baggage” and ingrained attitudes provides insight. Then, you can have deeper conversations about why you make certain choices and how to balance each other. 

Agree On Financial Goals And Lifestyles 

Now comes the fun part — dreaming together about what you want out of life! Cover things like:

  • Homeownership goals – size, location, timing
  • Lifestyle must-haves – vacations, cars, entertainment, etc.
  • When you’d like to retire, and what that lifestyle looks like
  • How do you envision providing for future children – college savings, activities, etc.

Setting shared financial goals can be a powerful way to align your efforts. Working towards these goals together can strengthen your relationship. Regularly review your finances together, celebrate milestones reached, and adjust your plans as necessary.

Let Five Pine Wealth Management Partner With You

Starting a new life together is exciting. And let’s be honest, figuring out how to handle money together might not be the first thing on your mind amidst all the wedding planning and dreaming about the future. But it’s important. 

That’s where we come in. At Five Pine Wealth Management , we’re all about having those open, honest chats about money. We’re here to help you figure out a game plan that makes sense for both of you, ensuring you’re both feeling good about handling your finances.

Call us at 877.333.1015 or email us at info@fivepinewealth.com to schedule a meeting to discuss how you can start this exciting new chapter of your life on the right financial foot. With Five Pine’s help, you can focus more on the fun stuff, knowing your finances are in good hands.

 

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🎉💍Just tied the knot or about to walk down the aisle? Congratulations! Stepping into married life is an adventure of a lifetime.

But wait, have you sat down with your partner to have “the talk”? No, we’re not talking about who gets the remote control — we’re talking about finances! 💸

Yes, merging your financial lives is just as important as exchanging those vows. 

From handling debts to combining bank accounts, we’ve got you covered with some essential tips for managing your money as a newlywed team.

So, are you ready to kickstart your married life with a solid financial plan? To learn more, check out this week’s blog post! It’s packed with friendly advice on starting your married life on the right financial foot.

Don’t let money matters get in the way of your happily ever after. 

Trust us; it’s a read you won’t want to miss. 📖

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