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Extracurricular Sticker Shock: What No One Tells You After Daycare Ends

January 10, 2025

For many parents, the end of daycare feels like a long-awaited financial milestone. No more sky-high monthly bills for childcare! But before you start redirecting those funds to other dreams or investments, let’s talk about an often-overlooked reality: the costs of raising kids don’t go away after daycare—they just shift. Extracurricular activities, summer camps, and other kid-related expenses can quickly replace them.


Let’s break it down, debunk some myths, and explore strategies to keep your family budget (and your sanity) on track.


The Daycare Cost Myth: When the Spending Doesn’t Stop


Daycare costs can be jaw-dropping. For many families, these expenses rival a second mortgage or a high car payment. Naturally, there’s hope that when those daycare years end, your budget will breathe a sigh of relief. But here’s the thing: costs don’t magically disappear. They transform.


As your children grow, new expenses fill the void. Think music lessons, travel sports, coding camps, tutoring, or after-school care. While these activities often feel less mandatory than daycare, they are still essential investments in your child’s development and they can add up quickly.


According to a recent LendingTree survey, approximately 86% of high-income earners have their children involved in afterschool activities. These activities can be costly. Consider these costs:

  • A competitive soccer program can run $2,000 to $5,000 annually
  • Music lessons might set you back $1,500 to $3,000 per year
  • Advanced academic tutoring or specialized training programs can easily reach $4,000 to $6,000 annually.


When you multiply this by three, four, or even five activities (or more), those “savings” from daycare start to look a lot less impressive.


For high-net-worth families, these costs might seem manageable at first glance. But the real kicker? The more opportunities your children have, the easier it is to overspend without realizing it.


Tracking Your Family Budget: Awareness is Everything


If you haven’t already, now is the time to get a clear picture of your family’s spending. You might find that extracurriculars creep into your budget in ways daycare didn’t—often sporadically and unexpectedly. Here are some tips to regain control:


  1. Identify Hidden Costs: Extracurricular activities come with sneaky expenses. Registration fees, uniforms, travel, equipment, and fundraising efforts can quickly double what you initially planned.
  2. Budget Seasonally: Unlike daycare, which is often a flat monthly rate, extracurriculars can fluctuate. Dance recital season or summer swim meets may require you to spend more during certain times of the year. Build these peaks into your budget.
  3. Set Limits: It’s easy to fall into the “yes trap,” especially if your child shows passion or talent in an activity. Be intentional about how many activities they participate in and prioritize those that align with your values.
  4. Plan for the Unexpected: Last-minute competition fees or special lessons often come out of nowhere. Having a family buffer fund can keep you from scrambling.


Why It’s Easy to Overspend


High-income families face unique pressures when it comes to kids’ activities. Beyond the financial ability to say “yes” more often, there’s a cultural expectation to do so.


Here are some common traps we see with clients:

  • Overcommitment: Money often opens doors to a dizzying array of extracurricular options. Saying yes to everything can lead to burnout for both parents and kids.
  • Keeping Up with the Joneses: It's easy to fall into comparison traps, especially when other families travel for elite hockey tournaments or enroll in private music academies.
  • Future-Planning Pressure: Activities often feel like stepping stones to college admissions or future success, making it hard to decline even costly opportunities.


Recognizing these dynamics is the first step to breaking free from them. Remember, you don’t have to say yes to everything for your kids to succeed.


Tax Benefits for Parents: Don’t Overlook Potential Savings


One silver lining of managing child-related expenses is that some may come with tax perks. Here are a few to keep on your radar:

  • Dependent Care Flexible Spending Accounts (FSAs): This FSA allows you to set aside pre-tax dollars for eligible care expenses, such as after-school care or summer day camps.
  • Child and Dependent Care Tax Credit: If you’re paying for care for a child under age 13, you might qualify for a credit on your tax return.
  • Educational Savings Accounts: Extracurriculars that are educational in nature (like certain tutoring programs) might qualify for tax-advantaged savings if structured properly.
  • Charitable Donations: Some extracurricular programs run by non-profit organizations may qualify as charitable donations. Keep detailed records of your contributions to these programs, as they could be tax deductible.
  • Know Your State Tax Laws: Every state has different tax laws. For example, in Arizona, you can donate up to $400 (for a married couple) to a public school. The donation can then be used to pay for after-school activities such as sports programs for your children. You then receive an equal tax credit (not a deduction) off your state taxes.


These benefits are often underutilized, especially among families who don’t feel they “need” the savings. But when layered with other smart financial strategies, they can free up funds for additional opportunities or long-term goals.


Working with a financial advisor who understands the nuanced tax landscape and can help you maximize potential benefits is critical.


The Value Behind the Dollar


As fiduciaries, we understand that financial planning extends beyond simple cost calculations. These activities represent more than expenses — they're investments in:

  • Skill development
  • Character building
  • Potential scholarship opportunities
  • Social and emotional intelligence
  • Creating lasting memories for your children


It’s important to remember the intangible benefits of extracurricular activities. The key is finding the right balance between enrichment and financial stability.


Preparing for What’s Next


Even though daycare ends, the financial journey of parenthood doesn’t. The sooner you take control of shifting costs, the better positioned you’ll be for life’s next stages — whether it’s saving for college, supporting aging parents, or building a legacy for future generations.


At Five Pine Wealth Management, we specialize in helping families like yours make thoughtful, informed financial decisions that align with your values. Our role is to help you navigate these investments strategically, ensuring that your financial decisions align with your family's broader goals and values.


Are you ready to create a financial plan that works for your family — daycare, dance lessons, and beyond? Schedule a meeting with Five Pine Wealth Management today. We’re only a phone call (877.333.1015) or email away. Let’s work together to create a family budget that reflects your priorities and sets you up for lasting financial success.

Start 2025 Right: A Guide to Setting Financial Goals for the Coming Year

January 3, 2025
As the year comes to a close and a new one begins, many of us feel motivated to set resolutions to achieve: wellness goals to live healthier lives, professional goals to advance our careers, or personal goals to better ourselves. To help us lead more fulfilling lives, it’s important to remember to set financial goals as well. One of the best ways to position yourself for a successful year ahead is to set clear, intentional financial goals; without a roadmap, it’s easy to overlook your priorities and make reactive, rather than proactive, money decisions. Intentional financial goal-setting allows you to align your money with what matters most. By creating a financial plan that sets you up for success, you can move through 2025 with confidence and purpose. 1. Reflect on 2024 to Plan for 2025 Before setting financial goals for 2025, look back at the previous year and see where you stand financially. Looking back will help you move forward—by reflecting on your progress, you can understand what’s working, what’s not, and what you can build on in the year ahead. Evaluate Your Financial Habits: Take an honest look at your spending, saving, and investing habits. Did you stick to your budget? Were there times when you spent more than you made? Reviewing your financial habits can help you spot patterns and identify areas that need improvement. Identify Successes and Challenges: Recognize your financial successes, whether paying off debt, following a savings plan, or increasing your investments. But also acknowledge any setbacks, like unexpected expenses or missed savings goals. Understanding any challenges you may have had allows you to better address them as you plan for the new year. Reflection isn’t about perfection; it’s about learning and using what you’ve learned to refine your financial priorities for the coming year. By looking back, you can build a strong foundation for 2025 and help ensure your goals are realistic and aligned with your financial situation. 2. Set Your Financial Goals for 2025 The key to effective goal-setting is making your goals SMART—Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound: Specific : Your goal should be well-defined and clear. A specific goal eliminates ambiguity and gives you direction. Measurable: You should have a way to track progress. A measurable goal includes metrics or criteria to keep you motivated and help you know when you’ve achieved your goal. Achievable: Set realistic goals based on your current circumstances. While it’s great to aim high, your goals should be within reach. Setting achievable goals helps build confidence as you see progress. Relevant: Your goal should align with your overall priorities and financial situation. Time-bound: Set a deadline to achieve your goal. Setting SMART goals helps position you for success, as your resolutions aren’t just wishes but actionable plans. Create a Budget A well-planned budget is the cornerstone of financial goal-setting. Start by assessing your income and fixed expenses, then allocate funds for discretionary spending (while ensuring you leave room for savings and investments). By creating and sticking to a budget, you can help ensure steady progress toward achieving your goals for 2025. Build on Your Emergency Fund If you don’t already have emergency savings, make this a top priority. The common recommendation is three to six months’ worth of expenses. If you already have an emergency fund, consider increasing it to account for inflation or unexpected life changes. Pay Down Debt Reducing high-interest debt can improve your financial health and increase your financial freedom. With less debt, you can free up cash flow and put more towards saving, investing, and reaching your financial goals. Make sure you create a clear repayment timeline to keep you on track and stay motivated. Contribute to Retirement Accounts Fund your retirement: contributing to your 401(k) or IRA not only helps you build a nest egg for the future but can also offer immediate tax advantages. Aim to contribute at least enough to receive any employer match, since this is essentially free money that accelerates your savings. Consider increasing your contributions; incremental increases (even a small percentage annually) can have a significant impact over time. 3. Create a Blueprint for Success Creating a solid financial plan is all about building a roadmap that guides you toward your financial goals while keeping you motivated along the way. Here’s how to set yourself up for success as you work toward your financial aspirations: Break Goals into Manageable Steps: Large financial goals can feel overwhelming, so break them into smaller, achievable milestones. Smaller financial targets can make progress feel more attainable. Don’t forget to celebrate your wins! Automate Savings and Contributions: Setting up automatic transfers to your savings, investment, and retirement accounts is one of the most effective ways to stick to a financial plan. By paying yourself first, you put your goals first, before other spending. Build Flexibility into Your Plan: Life rarely goes the way you plan, so it’s important to leave room for adjustments. Regularly review your progress, and be prepared to adapt your timeline and priorities as needed. Focus on High-Impact Goals: Not all financial goals carry equal weight, so focus on the goals that will have the most significant impact on your financial health (like paying off debt or saving for retirement), provide long-term stability, and move you closer to achieving other financial milestones. Why You Shouldn’t Go It Alone  Setting intentional financial goals can help you take control of your financial future and ensure it’s fulfilling and secure. You don’t have to go it alone, though: partnering with a financial advisor can make a difference in achieving your goals, as their experience and knowledge can help you create a custom plan aligned with your long-term vision. At Five Pine Wealth Management , we work with you to develop a personalized plan that reflects your specific financial situation and priorities. As fiduciary financial advisors, we have your best interest in mind as we help you make informed decisions in your financial and retirement planning. We’ll always be in your corner, helping to keep you on track for achieving your goals in the new year and beyond. To see how we can help you in your financial planning, please give us a call at: 877.333.1015 or send us an email today.

Five Pine Wealth Management: Highlights and Insights from 2024

January 3, 2025
As we head into 2025, the Five Pine Wealth Management team finds ourselves reflecting on an eventful and rewarding year. We’ve experienced growth, welcomed new faces at home, and taken some time to enjoy life outside of work. It's been a year of personal and professional milestones, and we're excited to share the highlights with you, our valued clients and friends. Sherrie’s Adventures For Sherrie, this year was about balancing professional responsibilities and personal passions. We always knew Sherrie was the creative one of the bunch. This year, she discovered a love for pottery, diving into classes at North Idaho College and Gizmo Maker's Space. (Let's just say her home now boasts an impressive collection of hand-crafted bowls and mugs!) Pottery has become her favorite way to unwind after a busy day at the office. When Sherrie wasn’t at the pottery wheel, she was exploring Europe with her daughter Jasmine. Their 10-day adventure took them through Belgium and France, where they enjoyed the local food, beer, and historic architecture. From the cobblestone streets of Bruges to the sparkling beaches of coastal France, it was a trip filled with unforgettable moments. (Pro tip from Sherrie: Belgian chocolate lives up to the hype!) Ben’s Growing Family The Holzhauser family started July with a bang, and we're not talking about the Fourth of July fireworks, but with the arrival of their second daughter, Margaret (Maggie) Rose. Ben and his wife are blessed to have two beautiful girls in their lives. Big sister Evelyn has taken her new role seriously, helping with Maggie's bottles, lots of tickles, and plenty of love. The Holzhauser household is brimming with joy—and probably a little extra caffeine. Ben continues to balance family life with his work. He's grateful for the support of his clients during this exciting (and busy) time. Financial Planner Spokane: Five Pine’s Milestones It’s been an incredible year of growth for Five Pine Wealth Management. We’re thrilled to share that we added over $30 million in new assets in 2024. This achievement wouldn’t have been possible without the trust and referrals from you, our amazing clients. Your confidence in our services motivates us to keep delivering the highest level of financial planning and investment management. Thank you for spreading the word about what we do! Looking ahead, we’re preparing to expand our team to better serve our growing client base. We plan to bring on another financial advisor in the coming months. Stay tuned for updates as we continue to grow and find new ways to meet your needs. Financial Tips to Start 2025 Off on the Right Foot As we head into a new year, it’s a great time to assess your financial health and set yourself up for success. Here are a few practical tips to help you start 2025 on solid ground: Revisit Your Financial Goals Reflect on the past year and evaluate your progress. Are your goals still relevant? Whether saving for retirement, paying off debt, or planning a big purchase, align your financial priorities with your values. Maximize Tax Advantages Review your contributions to tax-advantaged accounts like your 401(k), IRA, or HSA. Don’t miss the opportunity to increase contributions early in the year to take full advantage of compounding growth. Build or Replenish Your Emergency Fund If you dipped into savings this year, now’s the time to rebuild. Aim for at least three months’ worth of expenses to cover unexpected costs without derailing your financial plan. Schedule an Insurance Check-Up Life changes—like growing your family, purchasing property, or changing jobs—may require updates to your life, health, or disability insurance. Protect what matters most. Take Control of Your Investments Stay disciplined and avoid emotional decision-making when markets get bumpy. If your asset allocation feels off-track or your risk tolerance has changed, we’re here to help you adjust and stay focused on your long-term plan. Plan for Future Milestones Whether it’s a child heading to college, a business expansion, or retirement on the horizon, early preparation will make these transitions smoother and less stressful. A little proactive planning now can make a big difference throughout the year. Our Commitment to You As we look to the future, the priorities at Five Pine Wealth Management remain the same: helping you achieve your goals, simplify your financial life, and make decisions aligned with your values. Whether you’re building a legacy for your family, planning for retirement, or navigating the complexities of equity compensation, we’re here every step of the way. 2024 was an incredible year, but we’re even more excited for what’s to come. We'd love to meet with you if you're ready to start planning your financial future—or just need a second opinion on your current strategy. Give us a call (877.333.1015) or send us an email to schedule a meeting. Let’s work together to create a plan tailored to your life, values, and dreams.  Wishing you all the best this holiday season!
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